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Oh Brother! (And Sister!): Siblings vs. Neurodivergence

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Hosts Julianna Scott and Kelley Jensen welcome their own children, Ethan and Rosalie, to discuss the profound impact of growing up as siblings to neurodivergent family members. The conversation explores "glass child syndrome" - when siblings feel invisible due to the intense focus on a high-needs child. Through candid personal stories, they examine childhood anxiety, PTSD, depression, and the long journey toward healing. The siblings share what worked and what didn't in their upbringing, offering invaluable insights for other families navigating similar challenges while emphasizing the importance of communication, independence, and validation.

Key Takeaways
  • 71% of siblings of neurodivergent children experience depression, anxiety, or childhood trauma
  • Glass child syndrome occurs when siblings feel overlooked as parents focus on high-needs children
  • Creating separate spaces, schools, and activities helps siblings develop independent identities
  • Therapy readiness varies - it's okay to stop and restart different therapeutic approaches
  • Micromanaging sibling relationships often backfires and creates more distance
  • One-on-one time through special meals, vacations, and activities is crucial for sibling well-being
  • Open communication about the neurodivergent child's diagnosis helps siblings understand and cope
  • Siblings often develop heightened empathy and emotional intelligence from their experiences
  • Parents must avoid getting defensive when siblings express frustration about their childhood
  • Long-term healing requires validating the sibling's journey and acknowledging parental mistakes

Creators and Guests

Julianna Scott
Guest
Julianna Scott
Kelley Jensen
Guest
Kelley Jensen
Oh Brother! (And Sister!): Siblings vs. Neurodivergence

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